Each Day is a Blessing

In 1986 I had the shock of my life.  My father, at the age of 71, died unexpectedly on the operating table.  He was only having knee surgery following bypass surgery that was completely successful.  It seemed impossible that my rock, my soul mate was gone.  I thought he would live to see his grandchildren graduate and walk down the aisle on their wedding days.  Daddy, of all people, knew me, knew my soul and was a model of unconditional love.  After being mad ~ angry that he died, I grieved and then I gave thanks for his life.  I learned during the next few years that we cannot take for granted that we will live a long life.  Each day is a blessing for sure!  However, I have always wanted to be organized... ready... in case my time comes sooner than expected...

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Planned Giving Planning Partners

“I have been wanting to learn more about estate planning and trusts for some time now to be of better services to our donors, and the Lunch & Learn was just what I was looking for. Tammy walked me through the process using easy to understand examples, visuals, and fun (yet appropriate) metaphors, and she answered all of my questions without burying me in “legal lingo”. I learned about the importance of setting up a trust that it will actually fulfill the wishes of the individual, and I can see how much peace of mind Cain & Cain give their clients and their families through their services. I plan to attend future educational opportunities to learn even more.”  

Leslie (Keller Kenton) Spielman.  Vice President of Development, United Way of Norman

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A Big Thank You

"[My son] joins me in a hearty thank you.  We certainly enjoyed learning more about writing.  The workshop made a nice father/son event for us.  Judy surely knows her stuff.  I'm sure we will do a better job writing things we wish to pass along."

- From a note sent to us by a client after attending our special Memoir Writing workshop we held for our clients in November, 2015.

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Name the one thing you like best about Cain & Cain:

"The personal touch - we feel that you truly do have our best interest at heart.  We appreciate that so much!"

Family agricultural business owner, Feb. 2014

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Answer to the question: Name one thing you like best about Cain & Cain:

"Total commitment to assuring trust is up to date, compliant & to educating all concerned about the process & actions to take when a disability or death occurs. Plus your caring hearts & Integrity."

-Business development professional, February 2014

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